Three Things Know A Secret- First; The

Give Your Enemy A Face, If He Is Human, Do Not Dehumanize Him. Know Him And Know Why He Is Your Enemy. If Your Enemy Is Within You, Understand What It Is And Why You Are Afraid. Put A Face On Your Fear. When You Understand It, And It Is No Longer Vague And Shapeless, You Will Find That Your Fear Is No Longer So Formidable.

It Isn't Wise To Be Rude To One's Mother. She Knows Everything About Your Childhood That Is Potentially Embarassing.

It's Just As Easy To Be Lonely In A City As Out In The Wilderness. Easier, Really. It's Harder To Get To Know Someone When You Meet In A Crowded Place. People Can Freely Ignore You In The City; They Can Assume They Don't Have Any Responsibility For You. When There Are Fewer People, (...) They Begin Assuming Some Kind Of Responsibility, Simply Because You Naturally Do The Same.

Not Forgiving Someone Hurts You Worse Than It Hurts Him...even If He Doesn't Deserve To Be Forgiven...not Forgiving Someone Is Like Not Pulling A Thorn Out Of Your Foot Just Because You Weren't The One Who Put It There.

Three Things Know A Secret- First; The Lady In A Dream, The Dog That Barks No Warning, And A Maid That Does Not Scream.