The Friends Who Listen To Us Are

To "know Thyself" Must Mean To Know The Malignancy Of One's Own Instincts And To Know, As Well, One's Power To Deflect It.

We Have Come To See That Just As The Child Must Learn To Love Wisely, So He Must Learn To Hate Expeditiously, To Turn Destructive Tendencies Away From Himself Toward Enemies That Actually Threaten Him Rather Than Toward The Friendly And The Defenseless, The More Usual Victims Of Destructive Energy.

Our Lives Are Shaped By Those Who Love Us As Well As Those Who Refuse To Love Us.

Attitudes Are Much More Important Than Facts.

It Was His Optimism That Freud Bequeathed To America And It Was The Optimism Of Our Youthfulness, Our Freedom From The Sterner, Sadder Tradition Of Europe Which Enabled Us To Seize His Gift.