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It Is Better For A Woman To Compete Impersonally In Society, As Men Do, Than To Compete For Dominance In Her Own Home With Her Husband, Compete With Her Neighbors For Empty Status, And So Smother Her Son That He Cannot Compete At All.

Men, Also, Have In Them Enormous Capacities That They Have To Repress And Fear In Themselves, Living Up To This Obsolete And Brutal Man-eating, Bear-killing, Ernest Hemingway, Crewcut Prussian Sadistic, Napalm All The Children In Vietnam, Bang-bang You're Dead, Image Of Masculinity, The Image Of All Powerful Masculine Superiority That Is Absolute.

A Woman Has Got To Be Able To Say, And Not Feel Guilty, 'who Am I, And What Do I Want Out Of Life?' She Mustn't Feel Selfish And Neurotic If She Wants Goals Of Her Own, Outside Of Husband And Children.

You Can Have It All, Just Not All At The Same Time.

Regardless Of Your Age, You Will Always Have Adventures, Unexpected Joys And Unexpected Sorrows.